Happy new month everyone! I hope no one got April fooled like I did :/ I somehow ALWAYS fall for the pranks!

A lot has happened between my last post and this one.. am officially done with my under graduate studies (YAY), I moved out of my apartment and into a better,more spacious one, realized I cant change someone who isn't willing to change and still trying to decide whether or not staying in a relationship that makes me unhappy is worth it.

Am about 90% ready to make my move out of India now seeing as am done with my studies.Am applying for a masters in the UK so my love/hate relationship with India is about to come to an end. I will miss the place, that's for sure. I've discovered so much about myself while living alone,its been such an eye opener and if I could do it again I probably would.

If you go a few posts down you might remember me talking about being in a relationship?! yeah that....am not so sure I should be in one right now. I mean, maybe I could be in a relationship but not with the guy am dating. I never want to blame our differences  on our different cultures but mehnn.... cultural differences are enough to fuck up any relationship when there's a lack of understanding from both parties. I really shouldn't be going in on this because its my personal problem but what the heck! I need to ask a question. and please do not think am being biased or stereotypical in any way because am not... I just need someone else's opinion.
                           WHY DO NIGERIAN MEN THINK CHEATING IS OK? 0_0
I know not ALL Nigerian men cheat, of course not..but a very good percent of the ones I know see absolutely nothing wrong with having 3/4 gf's. I was having a heated conversation/argument with a good friend who happens to be Nigerian and he said..." my dear,it is in a Nigerian mans nature to cheat. our polygamous culture allows it so if you love your man you will pray for him and just bear it". mind =blown moment right there. icant comprehend but C'est la vie i guess :(

It could be because of all the stress and what not but I have really put on weight!! and its not the sexy type! LOL so I have decided to go on a diet and stick to it for as long as possible. im really not a fitness freak so i don't think joining a gym would do any good..id probably watch the membership expire while convincing myself I'll go tomorrow :D. the diet I've decided to  go with is the GM DIET. I'll probably make a post about it later but you can check it HERE . I think I can do that easily because India is a fruit & vegetable type of place anyway...if i walk down the street i know ill find more than 3 carts hauling fruits/veggies so yay!! *bbm dance*

ALSO....im gonna incorporate alot of tulsi green tea into the diet. believe it or not green tea does help with weight loss.Am a living testimony. I lost almost half my weight 2years ago because of green tea. the particular brand ive chosen is the tulsi type because its not too strong. 

I dont know how far I can go with it but I'll keep you in the loop!

love & kisses!