4/14/11

AM SUCH A SLACKER....

But please bear with me *sad face*. iv had a million and one things to do on my plate for the past 3 weeks and am nowhere near done...i really cannot wait till graduation! my social life is closely bordering zero these days...

SOOO....I have a close friend whose been dating some guy for close to 9 months now.the guy is a typical douche bag and the girl is head over heels in love with him.On a normal day,I don't usually poke my nose in other peoples  business because thats not sexy  but I made an exception in this case because I recently found out HE HITS HER! The man gives this girl serious WWE beat down sessions and she always takes him back!!


Last week I was over at her house for the weekend and we were having fun yo!drinks,movies food and gossip.Her phone rings,she frowns and picks up and I know immediately he must be the one on the other end of the line because nigga stays checking on her every 5 5mins because he thinks shes cheating! she quickly explains shes home with her girls and will call him later because she didn't wanna miss the show we had playing ( DEXTER,iheart this TV series).
She hang up and rejoined us.Little did we know her bf is throwing a pissy fit because she "discharged" him.He gets on a cab,gets to her house and demands to know who shes with in the house.The argument ensues and next thing we know...HES PUNCHING HER!! I was like OMG... I stood there for a good 5mins before I went over and gave him a dirty slap and called the guards who called the police! she went to the hospital with a split lip,bruised arms and legs,body pains and a bleeding nose.

Fast forward to last week,I go over to her house to see how shes doing and lo and behold! shes giggling away on the phone with the very same man who put her in that sorry state! I tire o.

Thats a really edited version of what happened but what I really want to ask is is abuse addictive or something? I cannot imagine myself going back to a man who abuses me physically,emotionally etc I just cant...and am finding it very difficult to hide how much i detest her bf. she wont listen to anyone....should I mind my business?