So ever since we rolled fabulously into 2011 iv been transformed into a wedding planner of sorts! on the very 1St day of January my best friend got engaged under a shower of fireworks,it was too romantic I tell ya...the guy took everyone by surprise so no photos :( . Its been hordes of engagements from there....everyone I know is either planning their marriage this year or newly engaged! anyone whose been in my shoes will know what follows next!Any time I try to fit in my genuine congratulations,someone will pop up and say "don't worry,your own is coming next",or something along those lines...WHY?? am not complaining am I??
OK let me start from the very beginning( sowi lovers,my mind is all over the place). So heres the deal, I have a serious boyfriend iv been dating for 3 years now.He is Nigerian..*wink* and my boyfriend loves women, I don't wanna call him a player cos real players never leave traces or get caught lol, anyway he has 5 siblings and 3 best friends...ALL OF THEM are either married or just got engaged! his baby sis just got engaged last week and asked me to be chief brides maid *which means a trip to Nigeria for me again this year,YAY* so the pressure is kinda on for him to follow suit while they pity me! its really funny...and very annoying at the same time!am very happy with how things are going but this whole pressure of a thing is getting to me...all of a sudden I see weddings everywhere I look! if I see a girl with a ring on her finger I'll unconsciously try to picture her in a wedding dress..like WTF?? I wasn't like that 2 months ago*crying*
If mine happens, I want it to be a special thing, I want to be sure he knows what he's doing( we are from 2 very different countries) and I want to know he's not doing it because he is under pressure from family/friends ;)
so,can you guys help me come up with a fabulous theme & colour for the braids maids? never done this before...hehe